Life

Among one of our life-discussions with my friends this quote came up : " If every one is Happy with you it means you have made a lot of compromises."

At that moment I felt it to be very true. And at that moment I thought I must have made a lot of compromises all along coz then,every one seems to be happy with me.

I must have looked overlooked a few of my compromises as well, so I started analysing my relations.

To my surprise I did not any instance where I had compromised. Infact IO felt I was happy doing what could possibly be called a compromise. SO should I call them compromise....? I decide not to. Just like studies become hard when people ask us to work hard ; my choices could seem unnecessary when called compromises.

It simply means, choices are made to be called destiny.Infact its a choice you do so or no. I read somewhere taht vivekananda says, Man is a creature tied to a tree and only when he takes the spiritiual path does the rope extend...May be that was his choice and thats what their followers choose to believe...But I feel life is that horse which goes as you take it if you drive it else it goes on ..on its own adn we can call it destiny...
The debate will go on..if its choice or if its destiny that drives one...but I like to believe its choice and (like mask says) no one can stop me. :)